Money Blocking for Fun! | Series 6.4 - Enjoy More 30s: Family Finance

Episode 4

Money Blocking for Fun! | Series 6.4

Published on: 24th January, 2022

Intentionally setting money aside for things you love ahead of time, can add a lot more happiness to your life!

  • The goal really for today's episode is for you to think of ways to easily do more of the things you love without the anxiety that tends to come with it. (01:36)
  • Money blocking is basically a term I came up with to describe intentionally setting aside or blocking money for certain items that make your life more enjoyable on a more daily basis. (02:25)
  • With money blocking, what you could do is say take a piece of this bonus and buy four gift cards for that massage place that you love. You now have one guilt free massage every single quarter. (03:21)

Quote for the episode: "If money blocking every year allows you two extra massages, an extra let's say hockey game, make sure you take a vacation and let's say an extra daily shot of espresso in your coffee for the next 30 years, that's a lot of extra happiness that I don't want to be missing out on." (04:46)

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Transcript
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Welcome to the EnjoyMore30s Family Finance

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podcast. The only podcast dedicated to making life more

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enjoyable for young families by hitting on the financial topics

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that tend to weigh on us, stress us out, and distract our focus

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from simply enjoying life.

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Hello, and welcome. Thank you so much for

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joining me once again on the EnjoyMore30s Family Finance

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podcast, where we're aiming to try to help you take steps

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forward, gain that confidence and really therefore remove that

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financial anxiety that you might have, so you can focus solely on

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making your life more enjoyable. We're entering the middle now of

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our new years series, Setting Your Compass for the New Year.

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As always, if you like what you're hearing, please make sure

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reach the literally millions of other young families out there

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that are just like you.

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So far this season, we've covered a lot, covered setting

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your compass with your spouse, so joint goal setting, then we

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discussed the importance of actually paying yourself first,

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giving some of that hard earned money to yourself, crazy I know,

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to reach those goals that would actually make you happy each

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month. And finally last week, we discussed bucketing your goals.

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So separating out different accounts for each individual

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goal. So you can easily see the track for each goal, you can

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easily achieve each goal. So if you haven't checked out those

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episodes yet, definitely definitely want to do that soon.

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Today's episode is titled Money Blocking for Fun!, where we're

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going to cover easy ways to set money aside, aka what I refer to

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as money blocking for specific things that will increase your

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happiness throughout the year. The goal really for today's

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episode is for you to think of ways to easily do more of the

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things you love without the anxiety that tends to come with

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it. Sounds good, right? If you've ever received a gift card

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to something that you love, maybe your favorite restaurant

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or the movies or really anything else you enjoy doing, you know

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what a great feeling that is. It's kind of like literally a

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free pass for fun. There's no anxiety around the spending or

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the financial outlay or the money you're given because it

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doesn't matter what else is going on for you right now in

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your life. You can go out and enjoy this completely guilt

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free. It's a free pass, it's not your money. This feeling is

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something you can actually feel more often though, throughout

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the year within your own control with something that I call money

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blocking.

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Money blocking is basically a term I came up with to describe

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intentionally setting aside or blocking money for certain items

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that make your life more enjoyable on a more daily basis.

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So for example, let's say that you love getting massages,

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however, you may get them sporadically or there may be

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times when money is tight during the year and you just don't feel

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like you can even you know do that though you really really,

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really may need a massage. Generally when things are tight

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and you're stressed, a massage could probably be pretty helpful

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right? Now, the easiest way to go about this is when you get a

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lump sum. So think of a bonus or a tax refund, somebody hands you

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a big chunk of money, maybe your parents give you money for

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Christmas every year, they gift you money, something like that.

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So for purposes of illustrating this point, let's say that every

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year you have a $5,000 bonus from work. Now normally without

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a plan for this kind of money, which I've talked about before,

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it has a tendency of disappearing. With money

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blocking, what you could do is say take a piece of this bonus

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and buy four gift cards for that massage place that you love. You

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now have one guilt free massage every single quarter. So you see

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what I mean? You can do this with anything to. Hockey games,

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Starbucks, your favorite restaurant, if you set money

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aside money blocking, and buy those massage gift cards. When

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you're super stressed during the year, money may feel tight, you

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could walk right into the massage parlor and say, you

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know, hey, here's my gift card, get a massage, and there's no

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extra outlay for you. You can do this same concept on a monthly

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basis too. I would say it's generally not quite as easy. But

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let's say every month you put $150 aside into what you would

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call a separate vacation account, separate bank account

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that you reserved just for vacations. Now every year you're

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going to have $1,800 to take a vacation to stop, pause, enjoy

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life with your family. So money blocking is all about enabling

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yourself to have more fun.

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So from today's episode, hopefully you're taking away how

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you can adjust how you're going to go about doing things you

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already enjoy. You probably take vacations every year, you

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probably get a couple massages a year. But if you're more

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intentional about setting money aside for them ahead of time, it

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can add a lot more happiness to your life. It can guarantee a

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lot more happiness is going to happen in your life on a daily

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basis. If money blocking every year allows you two extra

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massages, an extra let's say hockey game, make sure you take

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a vacation and let's say an extra daily shot of espresso in

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your coffee for the next 30 years, that's a lot of extra

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happiness that I don't want to be missing out on. And I don't

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want you to be missing out on either.

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So thanks for tuning in today and join us for next week's

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episode called, Yes, There Can Be Too Conservative!, where

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we're going to cover how paying yourself first, separating out

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your goals is all well and good but if you're using

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inappropriate types of investments for certain goals,

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they may take much much longer to achieve or perhaps you even

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may never achieve them at all.

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So overall, if you're able to implement what we covered today,

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that's fantastic. You have less to worry about than before, you

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could focus more on enjoying life. If you are wanting help

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with these things though, where you have questions you need help

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in clarifying, check out the ASK JOE section on the show's

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website EnjoyMore30s.com. That's EnjoyMore30s.com. Until next

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week. Thanks for joining me today and I look forward to

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connecting with you again soon.

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The conversations on this show are

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Joe's opinions and provided for general information purposes

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only. They do not constitute accounting, legal, tax, or other

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professional advice for your specific situation. You should

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always seek appropriate advice from a financial advisor,

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accountant, lawyer, or other professional before acting upon

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any content or information found here first. Joe is affiliated

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with New Horizons Wealth Management LLC, a branch office

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of TFS Securities, Inc., and TFS Advisory Services an SEC

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Registered Investment Advisor Member FINRA/SIPC.

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Enjoy More 30s: Family Finance
Family Finance for Young Professionals.
Young families receive little to no personal finance help. We all grow up to have jobs and money, yet our education system focuses on Shakespeare and Algebra. Even professional advice can be hard to come by, with the majority of the industry chasing retirees and existing wealth.

Joe Okaly's podcast is aiming to change this, providing personal financial advice geared specifically to professionals with young families. This podcast is dedicated to making life more enjoyable for young families, by hitting on the financial topics that tend to weigh on us, stress us out, and distract our focus from simply enjoying life.

Joseph P Okaly is a CFP Certified Financial Advisor who fits directly in with who this podcast is focused on - a young professional with a family. With over a decade of experience as an advisor, there is passion and knowledge to make a difference.

Securities offered through TFS Securities, Inc., Advisory Services through TFS Advisory Services, a SEC Registered Investment Advisor Member FINRA / SIPC. TFS Securities, Inc. located at 437 Newman Springs Road, Lincroft, NJ 07738 (732) 758-9300.