Bonuses Aren't Free Money | Series 2.1 - Enjoy More 30s: Family Finance

Episode 1

Bonuses Aren't Free Money | Series 2.1

Published on: 15th March, 2021

Bonuses are great, but are you making the most out of yours?

  • Two dangers of a free money mindset (02:19)
  • Plan ahead what bonuses will go toward (04:08)

Quote for the episode: "Any portion (saved) then benefits you in those two ways- more saved, less to replace long term."

Securities offered through TFS Securities, Inc., Advisory Services through TFS Advisory Services, a SEC Registered Investment Advisor Member FINRA / SIPC.  TFS Securities, Inc. located at 437 Newman Springs Road, Lincroft, NJ 07738 (732) 758-9300.

Transcript
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Welcome to the Enjoy More 30s: Family Finance

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podcast, the only podcast dedicated to making life more

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enjoyable for young families by hitting on the financial topics

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that tend to weigh on us, stress us out and distract our focus

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from simply enjoying life.

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Welcome to the Enjoy More 30s: Family Finance

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podcast. This is the second series now, which is called

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"Your Money Multipliers". So unlike the first "Your Money

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Mindset" series, where we were focusing more on higher level

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concepts for how we should approach money and finances

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really as a whole, namely viewing them as a tool to help

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remove anxiety and make life more enjoyable, this series will

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focus on more specific topics that affect your finances. The

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end goal, though, is really still the same. Any improvement

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that we can help make in any area that helps lessen the

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anxiety, creates more confidence for us to focus on making life

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more enjoyable for everything kind of outside of that.

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Today's episode is called "Bonuses Aren't Free Money". And

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what we're going to cover is what you need to know about how

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to approach your bonus, and what you can do to have it make the

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greatest impact for you. Now, we've all been in the position

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where we have that pair of pants that we own, we don't seem to

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want to throw it away. But you know, it's usually a pair of

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jeans or something like that, that you have crumpled up. And

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you know, once in a blue moon, they seem to fit the occasion.

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And you put them on you, they're a bit uncomfortable, because you

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haven't worn them in a while, and you wind up sticking your

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hands down to the pockets to get them situated, fitted correctly,

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what have you. And lo and behold, there's money in the

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pocket. So you pull it out all excited, because hey, you just

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found free money. The first thing that we naturally think of

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next- 'that's going to be just enough to buy __' and then you

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can kind of finish the sentence. And the money is gone. No one's

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reaction is, "Hey, that's great. I can't wait to get down to the

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bank and make a deposit." Now, if I'm a financial advisor, and

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I don't have that reaction about wanting to run down to the bank

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with that $10 bill and put it in my checking account, then you

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and everybody else certainly does not have that reaction

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either. And the thing is, it was always our money, we just didn't

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know we were finding it until just then. And the emotional

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excitement and surprise, influence the reaction that we

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had.

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So what you need to know- finding money in your pocket is

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surprisingly similar to how a lot of people tend to treat the

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bonuses that they receive. They know they're coming, not quite

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sure of the amount most times. But when they do come, it can

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very much feel like free money. If you treat it this way,

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though, you are negatively affecting yourself in actually t

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o ways. The first is pretty o vious- you're missing a p

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tential significant annual o portunity to save more money a

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d reach your goals more q ickly. The less you save, the l

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ss you have long term. So t at's pretty straightforward. T

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e second, though, is somewhat l ss obvious. When you forego s

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vings, you are also getting a customed to spending more. So w

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have clients that may tell u , "Hey, I always just treat t

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at as, you know, extra money. I don't need to live on that in r

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tirement, you don't have to w rry about that. Because it was j

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st, you know, it's free m ney." Now, if you stop and t

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ink about what you spent it o , though, which is what we do w

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th clients, that's often not t e case. Let's say you spent it o

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vacations- do you not want to v cation at all in retirement? H

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w about home renovations- are y u never going to want to u

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date your home again over a 20 t 30 year retirement? Whatever o

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r current equivalent is to g andma wallpaper and s

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ipcovers, I'm sure you're g nna want to get rid of it at s

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me point.

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So basically, you get hit twice. You're going to have less saved

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up, which is pretty obvious. But you will simultaneously, and

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more importantly, be accustomed to living on more because of

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that bonus. And a lot of the things that you're spending that

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bonus on now, you're probably going to want to do in

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retirement. Which means that income does also need to be

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replaced to have the retirement that, you know, you're going to

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want to have.

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So what can you do? The answer is to plan ahead of time what

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you will do with your bonus. And it absolutely does not and

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should not be to save 100% of it. Now, let's say you received

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a $10,000 bonus, for example. You could save maybe $5,000, go

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on vacation for another $3,000, and put $2,000 towards a home

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improvement, just as an example. But any portion that you wind up

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saving above what you otherwise would have done can be hugely,

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hugely significant. Another way, which really requires a little

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bit more of an advisor to implement, is that we have some

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clients that when we do their projections, it turns out if

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they just save 100% of their bonus, they don't have to worry

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about saving any other amount of their normal paycheck to reach

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their goals. And some of them really, really liked this

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mentality of, "Hey, this is free money that I get extra. Sure,

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you can have that you could put that towards my goals, since

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it's really not part of the normal pay that I get every

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month anyhow. And so if I just can have the freedom to spend my

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monthly paycheck kind of however I want, and you know, this bonus

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that just comes randomly once per year that I don't really

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think about can take care of me reaching all the goals and doing

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everything I want to do, then spending my paycheck anxiety

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free would actually make me the happiest."

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So there are a number of different ways that we can

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approach it. But using some approach to have this bonus

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reach our goals and reduce our anxiety in the process is what

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we're trying to accomplish. Overall, there are different

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ways to approach it. But anyway you happen to look at it, if the

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end result is you save more money than you otherwise would

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have, then you're giving yourself those two advantages.

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One, there will be more saved down the line and you will reach

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your goals more quickly. And two, and actually more important

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in many, many cases, what you are accustomed to living on, and

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therefore what you need to replace in retirement, will be

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So a quick summary of today's meeting. One- bonuses are not

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free money. You need to plan for what you want to do with those

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funds ahead of time. Two, if you treat it as free money and spend

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it- again, you're hurtin yourself in two ways. Less save

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less.

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, and more to be replaced long term. Three, you do not have t

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save all of it in your pla . Any portion then benefits

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ou in those two ways- more saved less to replace long

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Thanks for joining us today. Because a lot of this can be

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Enjoy More 30s: Family Finance
Family Finance for Young Professionals.
Young families receive little to no personal finance help. We all grow up to have jobs and money, yet our education system focuses on Shakespeare and Algebra. Even professional advice can be hard to come by, with the majority of the industry chasing retirees and existing wealth.

Joe Okaly's podcast is aiming to change this, providing personal financial advice geared specifically to professionals with young families. This podcast is dedicated to making life more enjoyable for young families, by hitting on the financial topics that tend to weigh on us, stress us out, and distract our focus from simply enjoying life.

Joseph P Okaly is a CFP Certified Financial Advisor who fits directly in with who this podcast is focused on - a young professional with a family. With over a decade of experience as an advisor, there is passion and knowledge to make a difference.

Securities offered through TFS Securities, Inc., Advisory Services through TFS Advisory Services, a SEC Registered Investment Advisor Member FINRA / SIPC. TFS Securities, Inc. located at 437 Newman Springs Road, Lincroft, NJ 07738 (732) 758-9300.